Is it because—could it be—you haven’t dared to dream big because you are afraid? Afraid of turning out to be nothing special, afraid of failing, afraid of expectations, afraid of losing attention and people’s praise, fear of responsibility?
Legitimate fears, all of them. If we dare to discover what we are truly capable of and dare to push our boundaries, we can no longer claim ignorance and are responsible for maximizing our potential. If we dare do our best on a regular basis, we do often lose attention (the squeaky wheel gets all the oil, after all), and why would praise you for doing what they’ve come to expect of you? It is so much easier to cultivate low expectations in others, so we can easily exceed them and gain praise.
Likewise, if we dare pursue
excellence and succeed, we must bear meeting those higher expectations and risk
disappointing those expectations; failure is now easier than praise. For if we
dare to reach high, we will, at some point fail. We don’t like failure because
it reminds us we are human . . . fallible . . . limited. Just like anyone else.
And if there’s one thing we don’t want to be, it’s like everyone else.
No, it’s so much easier to never
try. Safer, more comfortable. And we can always nourish the hope of “I might
have been ________, if I had _______,” and no one can contradict it, for we
speak in terms of possibility, not reality. Yes, it’s definitely safer to live
with potential than to live out our potential.
But that was never God’s plan. He created each of us
unique. He expects each of us to live out that uniqueness to the fullest extent
and even beyond, for unlike humanity, He refuses to lower His expectations just
because we refuse to try and meet them. He knows whom He created us to be, and
yes, He created us to be someone more than we are capable of being. Is that
because He wishes to see us fail? No. He wishes to be the One to do the
creating. The only way that is possible is by us releasing ourselves to His
touch, to His dream—His BIG dream—for us.
So will you? Will you release
yourself to Him, to dream His dream for you?
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